https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpDx3W5jZZsNovember 2018.I was the first participant going on stage. The classroom at IESE business school was full. My hands were sweating, and my heart was beating really fast. For a moment I couldn´t see, but somehow I remembered my lines and spoke.Then. . . silence . . .Later during the break Maty Tchey, one of the professors and leader of the effective communication program, came and told me that she thought I was good. A light comment that meant the world to me.After years of struggling before, during and after each presentation; after a professional life of fear of speaking in front of an audience, an authority in public speaking believed in me.Only then did I give myself permission to believe in myself.The power of the expert.If someone with that expertise and knowledge tells you that you can do it, you start considering that as a possibility.That power that gave me the strength to enroll in a public speaking club, to volunteer to deliver dozens of webinars during the lockdown, to actually enjoy presenting in front of over a hundred people, and to come first in a public speaking contest.Today speechwriting is one of my passions and I love creating videos for social media.If you are an expert in any field, imagine the effect that championing others can have in their future.Are you that generous?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABaNtC9R-OsLast year all my relationships improved. ✨With my family, friends, colleagues. . . even with our landlord.They were all affected by the fact that I’ve developed (also in my personal life) the number one skill that you need when coaching others, and that is listening.Listening with all your senses and paying full attention to what is being said is an incredible gift. And if you do it with curiosity, then magic happens.✔ When you are truly curious, you want to know more about the story. You ask questions that invite the other person to be curious about their life. The information becomes very real. You start a journey of discovery that might take you to places you’ve never been but that are worth exploring.I invite you to listen more, and listen better, to improve the quality of your conversations and have better relationships.Have a good day! 👊